forgiveness is one of the sweetest things ever~
indeed, however, it is not easily for a men to give it to a person who had hurt them
mostly, people will say that even the Prophet himself forgive his peoples (ummah) why not we forgive our other relatives in Islam..
true.. but the fact that, we are imperfect, all normal human being has their own ego..
same as me!
but, know what.. i am really2 thank to Allah coz for all the miracles in my life..
in the moments that i am too arrogant with my life fundamental of ego, my heart was opened to find some authorities about brotherhood in Islam..
and what~ it is an obligation for all men to forgive his relatives in Islam..
and i believe as long as we considered as normal human being, there is no exception for us to make mistake or escape from it..
But, for sure.. as we are the creation that given mind that differentiate us from other creations, we need to use the analogical reasoning to seek forgiveness if we make wrongful to others and forgive others if they make mistake.. this is Brotherhood in Islam..
is it wonderful?
~ they should forgive and forebear~
indeed.. sometime it really2 hurts~
but, believe me.. Allah always be with his believers who is patience and kind..
just be patience with it by considering the situation as one of the test from Allah to increase our faith and piety towards Allah Al-Mighty..
so, just forgive the person and let it go... then, u will feel much2 better..
coz, sometimes.. in this world.. we are created to make other peoples happy..
even, sometimes it hurts for us.. but why don't we sacrifices the burden and the sadness for something that can make other people happy and good for us in the same time.. is it great?
ha!! see!! i told u so.. it is for us too.. so, what are u waiting for?? just forgive the others..
remember!! one of the features of Brotherhood in Islam is to sympathize and kindness which mean all mans in this world always need each other.. =)